Cultivating intersubjectivity
intersubjective needs to be cultivated.
You don't start out in the world with someone you can have an interesting conversation with and reap the rewards, but you grow into someone you can have an interesting conversation with as you interact with them.
The other "was" not raised.
by the creation of a common language.
What grows between two people
a matter that does not concern either sex
When we talk about men and women, we say, "I don't have a good marriage partner."
Not someone in a good marriage situation for you falls down and you pick them up.
bring up by oneself
This also creates a relationship between, rather than "changing" the other party.
You don't need to make dozens of people in these relationships, but it's better to have a few.
To enhance the happiness of your life
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